Monday, June 27, 2011

DRINK WATER ON EMPTY STOMACH




It is popular in Japan today to drink water immediately after waking up every morning. Furthermore, scientific tests have proven its value.. We publish below a description of use of water for our readers. For old and serious diseases as well as modern illnesses the water treatment had been found successful by a Japanese medical society as a 100% cure for the following diseases:

Headache, body ache, heart system, arthritis, fast heart beat, epilepsy, excess fatness, bronchitis asthma, TB, meningitis, kidney and urine diseases, vomiting, gastritis, diarrhea, piles, diabetes, constipation, all eye diseases, womb, cancer and menstrual disorders, ear nose and throat diseases.

METHOD OF TREATMENT
1. As you wake up in the morning before brushing teeth, drink 4 x 160ml glasses of water
2. Brush and clean the mouth but do not eat or drink anything for 45 minutes
3. After 45 minutes you may eat and drink as normal.
4. After 15 minutes of breakfast, lunch and dinner do not eat or drink anything for 2 hours
5. Those who are old or sick and are unable to drink 4 glasses of water at the beginning may commence by taking little water and gradually increase it to 4 glasses per day.
6. The above method of treatment will cure diseases of the sick and others can enjoy a healthy life.

The following list gives the number of days of treatment required to cure/control/reduce main diseases:
1. High Blood Pressure (30 days)
2. Gastric (10 days)
3. Diabetes (30 days)
4. Constipation (10 days)
5. Cancer (180 days)
6. TB (90 days)
7. Arthritis patients should follow the above treatment only for 3 days in the 1st week, and from 2nd week onwards - daily.

This treatment method has no side effects, however at the commencement of treatment you may have to urinate a few times.

It is better if we continue this and make this procedure as a routine work in our life. Drink Water and Stay healthy and Active.

This makes sense .. The Chinese and Japanese drink hot tea with their meals ..not cold water. Maybe it is time we adopt their drinking habit while eating!!! Nothing to lose, everything to gain...

For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you.
It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion.

Once this "sludge" reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food.. It will line the intestine.
Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.

A serious note about heart attacks:

* Women should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting,
* Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line.
* You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack.
* Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms.
* 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up.
* Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep.. Let's be careful and be aware.. The more we know, the better chance we could survive...

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Do these five things before going to bed at night




Assalamualaikum(W.R.B.T)
The Prophet (SWS) one day said to Ali (RA): Ya Ali ! Do these five things before going to bed at night:

1. Give 4000 Dinaars in Sadaqa and then sleep
2. Read one complete Quran and then sleep
3. Pay the price for Janna'h and then sleep
4. Make two people happy with each other when they are upset and then sleep
5. Do one hajj and then sleep
Hazrat Ali (RA) said, Ya Rasulallah! This looks impossible, how will I be able to do it? Then the prophet (SAWS) replied:

4 times reading surah Fatiha is equals to four thousand Dinaars giving in Sadaqa.

3 times reading surah Ikhlas (Qul hu Allahu Ahad) is equals to one complete Quran.

3 times reading any durood shareef (Shortest: Sallalaho Alaihi Wa Salam) is the price of jannat.

10 times Astagfirullah (or any istighfar) is equals to making two unhappy people happy with each other.

4 times third Kalima is equals to one hajj.

After this Ali ( RA ) said, Ya Rasulallah (SAWS)! Now I will do all these before going to bed.

My dear brothers and sisters, it takes less than 5min for all the above zikr and look at the virtues for it.....who would not want to have all these virtues to be in their book of good deeds.
To remind oneself of it, the easiest way is to write down on a piece of paper all the above zikr to be done before going to sleep and stick that piece of paper just next to your bed.....and of course Allah is the one to remind.


Please do Dua that Allah guides us to the right path... Please also remember in your prayers/duas to us and all ummat-ul-muslimeen. ......... ..

...... Jazakallah Khair

மரங்களை வெட்டுங்கள்

உலகமே ஒட்டு மொத்தமாக வெப்பமயமாதல் ( குளோபல் வார்மிங் ) பற்றி பயந்து கொண்டு இருக்கும், இன்றைய காலகட்டத்தில் 'மரங்களை நடுங்கள்' என்ற ஒரே கோஷம் தான் எங்கும் கேட்கிறது, இந்த நேரத்தில் 'மரங்களை வெட்டுங்கள்' என்று கூறுவது முரண்பாடாக தோன்றுகிறது அப்படிதானே. ஆனால் இங்கே நான் சொல்வதை முழுவதும் கவனித்தால் நீங்களும் ' ஆமாம் கண்டிப்பாக வெட்ட வேண்டும் ' என்று சொல்வீர்கள். அப்படி அந்த மரத்தை வெட்டினால் தான் நம் மண்ணின் மாண்பை காப்பாற்ற முடியும் என்பதுதான் விஞ்ஞானிகள் நமக்கு கொடுக்கும் ஒரே எச்சரிக்கை.


மண்ணின் வில்லன்


அமெரிக்க தாவரவியல் பூங்கா , 'வளர்க்க கூடாத நச்சு மரங்கள்' என்று ஒரு தனி பட்டியலே வெளியிட்டு இருக்கிறது. அதில் முன்னணியில் இருப்பது தான் நான் குறிப்பிட போகிற விஷ மரம். தமிழ் நாட்டின் ரோட்டின் ஓரங்களிலும், பல கிராமங்களின் வயல்வெளிகளிலும் சகஜமாக இருக்க கூடிய முள் மரம் எனப்படும் 'காட்டு கருவேல மரம்' தான் அது. ( பேராண்மை படத்தில் கூட ஜெயம்ரவி மாணவிகளுடன் சேர்ந்து காட்டுக்குள் இருக்கும் மரத்தை வெட்டிகொண்டே விளக்கம் சொல்வாரே ! )


நம் மண்ணின் தன்மையை கெடுப்பதற்காக வெளி நாட்டினர் இந்த மரத்தின் விதையை இங்கு தூவியதாக ஒரு கருத்தும் , கிராம மக்களுக்கு அடுப்பு எரிக்க விறகு வேண்டும் என்பதற்காக ஒரு அரசியல்வாதி (நல்ல எண்ணம்தான், இதன் நச்சு தன்மை பற்றி தெரியாமல் இருந்திருக்கலாம் ) வெளிநாட்டில் இருந்து தருவித்ததாகவும் இரு விதமான கருத்துகள் உலவுகின்றன. உண்மை எதுவென்று ' யாம் அறியேன் பராபரமே'


ஆனால் எப்படி வந்தது என்பது அல்ல...., இப்போதைய பிரச்சனை....!? , இம்மரத்தால் என்னவெல்லாம் பாதிப்பு ஏற்படுகிறது என்று பார்பதுதான் அவசியம். முதலில் இந்த மரத்தின் தன்மைகளை பார்க்கலாம்.

இதன் கொடூரமான குணங்கள்


இவை எந்த வித வறட்சியிலும் நன்கு வளரக்கூடியது . மழை பெய்யாமல் போனாலும், நிலத்தில் நீரே இல்லாமல் இருந்தாலும் இவை கவலை படாது. பூமியின் அடி ஆழம் வரை கூட தன் வேர்களை அனுப்பி நீரை உறிஞ்சி , தன் இலைகளை வாடவிடாமல் பார்த்து கொள்கிறது, ( அடுத்தவர்களின் உழைப்பை உறிஞ்சி வாழும் சில சுயநல மனிதர்களை போல...! ) இதனால் நிலத்தடி நீர் முற்றிலுமாக வற்றி அந்த பூமியே வறண்டு விடுகிறது...!


இதன் கொடூரம் அத்துடன் நிறைவு பெறுவது இல்லை, ஒருவேளை நிலத்தில் நீரே கிடைக்கவில்லை என்றாலுமே தன்னை சுற்றி தழுவி செல்லும் காற்றில் இருக்கும் ஈரபதத்தையும் இம்மரம் உறிஞ்சிவிடுகிறது..... ??!! இப்படி காற்றின் ஈரபதத்தையும் , நிலத்தடி நீரையும் இழந்து அந்த பகுதியே வறட்சியின் பிடியில் தாண்டவமாடும்.


தென் தமிழகத்தில் விருதுநகர், ராமநாதபுரம் போன்ற மாவட்டங்களின் வறட்சிக்கு இந்த மரங்களே முக்கிய காரணம் என்பது அதிர்ச்சியான ஒன்றுதான். ஆனால் இதை அறியாமல் அந்த மக்கள், இன்னும் புதிதாக மரங்களை வளர்த்து பராமரிக்கிறார்கள் என்று என்னும் போது அறியாமையை குறித்து வருந்த வேண்டி இருக்கிறது.


உடம்பு முழுதும் விஷம்

இந்த மரத்தின் இலை, காய், விதை என எதுவுமே எந்த உயிரினத்துக்கும் பயன்படாது. முக்கியமான விஷயம் ஒன்றும் உள்ளது , ஆச்சரியமாக இருந்தாலும் உண்மை அதுதான். இந்த மரத்தில் கால்நடைகளை கட்டி வைத்து வளர்த்தால் அவை மலடாகிவிடும் , அதாவது சினைபிடிக்காமலேயே போய்விடும், ஒருவேளை மீறி கன்று ஈன்றாலுமே அது ஊனத்துடன்தான் பிறக்கும்....?!!

ஒருபுறம் இதன் வேர் நிலத்தடி நீரை விஷமாக மாற்றிவிடுகிறது மற்றொரு புறம் இதன் நிழலில் மற்ற உயிரினங்கள் வாழ முடியாத நிலை இருக்கிறது. இதன் பக்கத்தில் வேறு என்ற செடியும் வளராது, தவிர மரத்தில் எந்த பறவை இனங்களும் கூடுகட்டுவதும் இல்லை.

காரணம் என்னவென்றால் இந்த வேலிகாத்தான் மரங்கள், ஆக்சிசனை மிக குறைந்த அளவே உற்பத்தி செய்கிறது , ஆனால் கரிமிலவாயுவை மிக அதிக அளவில் உற்பத்தி செய்து வெளியிடுவதால் சுற்றுப்புற காற்று மண்டலமே நச்சுதன்மையாக மாறிவிடுகிறது.

அறியாமை

நமக்கு தெரியாமலேயே இப்படிப்பட்ட மரங்களை கண்டுகொள்ளாமல் இருக்கிறோம் என்பது வருத்தத்துக்கு உரியதுதான்.

கேரளாவின் விழிப்புணர்வு

நமது அண்டை மாநிலமான கேரளாவில் இந்த மரத்தை பற்றிய விழிப்புணர்வை வனத்துறையினர் மக்களிடம் ஏற்படுத்தி உள்ளனர்.....!! அதனால் கேரளாவில் இந்த மரத்தை ஒரு இடத்தில் கூட காண முடியாது. ஆனால் நம் தமிழ்நாட்டில் விறகிற்க்காக இந்த மரத்தை வளர்த்து வருகின்றனர்....??! என்ன முரண்பாடு...?? என்ன அறியாமை..??

ஆராய்ச்சியாளர்களும், இந்த மரங்கள் இருக்கும் இடங்களில் வாழும் மனிதர்களின் மனதையும் இந்த மரம் மாற்றி வன்முறை எண்ணத்தை கொடுக்கும் என்று கண்டு பிடித்து உள்ளனர்.

நல்ல மரம் ஆரோக்கியம்

வேப்பமரம் வளர்ப்பது எவ்வளவு நல்லது என்பதை யாவரும் அறிவோம், மற்றும் ஆலமரமும் , அரசமரமும் மனதிற்கு மகிழ்ச்சியை கொடுக்கிறது என்பதை உணர்ந்தவர்கள் நாம். இருந்தும் இந்த முள் மரத்தை பற்றி சரியாக விழிப்புணர்ச்சி நம்மிடம் இல்லையே என்பதே என் ஆதங்கம் .

சுற்றுபுறத்தில் புல், பூண்டை கூட வளரவிடாமல் தடுக்கும் இந்த முள் மரத்தை பூண்டோடு அழிக்கவேண்டும் என்ற விழிப்புணர்வை அரசாங்கம் தீவிர முயற்சி எடுத்து மக்களிடம் கொண்டு சேர்க்க வேண்டும் . சமூக ஆர்வலர்கள் இந்த மரத்தை பற்றிய பிரசாரங்களை செயல் படுத்தலாம், செய்வார்களா?

இந்த பதிவை படிப்பவர்களும் முடிந்தவரை இந்த செய்தியை மற்றவர்களிடம் கொண்டுபோய் சேர்க்கும் ஒரு சிறிய விழிப்புணர்வை ஏற்படுத்துங்கள்.
மரங்களை வளர்ப்பது எவ்வளவு அவசியமோ அதை விட இந்த மரத்தில் ஒன்றையாவது வெட்டி அழிப்பது அதை விட அவசியம்....
இந்த மரத்தை வெட்டி வீழ்த்துவோம்.....! நம் மண்ணின் மாண்பை காப்போம்..!!

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Dua - Ahmed Saud

Oh Allah, I have no money, but I have You. I am rich.
Oh Allah, I have no freedom, but I believe in You. I am free.
Oh Allah, I have no patience, but I read Your Quran. I am calm.
Oh Allah, I get no respect, but You listen to my dua. I am proud.
Oh Allah, I have no time, but I think of Jannah. I have forever.



Monday, June 20, 2011

நான் என்ன செய்யட்டும்?




சமீபத்தில் ஒரு கம்ப்யூட்டரும் விண்டோஸ் சாப்ட்வேரும் வாங்கினோம். அதில் சில பல பிழைகள் உள்ளதாக அறிகிறோம். அவற்றை உங்கள் கவனத்திற்கு உடனடியாகக் கொண்டு வருவதில் மிக்க பெருமிதமடைகிறோம்.


1. இண்டெர்நெட் கனெக்ட் செய்தபிறகு, ஹாட்மெயிலில் அக்கவுண்ட் உருவாக்க முயற்சி செய்தோம். ஃபார்மில் எல்லா விபரங்களையும் சரியாகக் கொடுத்துவிட்டோம். ஆனால் பாஸ்வேர்ட் கேட்குமிடத்தில் நாங்கள் என்ன டைப் செய்தாலும் ****
· என்று மட்டுமே தெரிகிறது. நாங்கள் இங்கு லோக்கல் சர்வீஸ் எஞ்சினியரிடம் விசாரித்ததில், அவர் கீபோர்டைச் செக் பண்ணிவிட்டு கீபோர்டில் ப்ராப்ளம் இல்லை எனக்கூறிவிட்டார். எனவே இதை விரைந்து சரிசெய்யுங்கள்.

2. விண்டோஸில் "*Start*" என்னும் பட்டன் உள்ளது. ஆனால் "Stop" பட்டன் இல்லை. அதையும் சேர்த்துவிடுங்கள்.


3. "Run" மெனுவை எனது நண்பர் ஒருவர் தவறுதலாகக் கிளிக் செய்து விட்டதில் அவர் சண்டிகருக்கே ரன் ஆகிவிட்டார். எனவே, அதை "sit" என மாற்றிவிடுங்கள். அப்போதுதான் எங்களால் உட்கார்ந்து வேலை செய்யமுடியும்.


4. "Recycle Bin" என்பதை "Rescooter Bin" என மாற்றவேண்டும். ஏனென்றால் என்னிடம் சைக்கிள் இல்லை, ஸ்கூட்டர்தான் உள்ளது.


5. "Find" பட்டன் சரியாக வேலை செய்யவில்லை என நினைக்கிறேன்.எனது மனைவி அவளது கார் சாவியைத் தொலைத்துவிட்டதால் "*Find**" *மெனுவிற்குச் சென்று தேடினோன். ஆனால் கண்டுபிடிக்கமுடியாது என்று கூறிவிட்டது. இது ஒரு எர்ரர் என நினைக்கிறேன். தயவு செய்து அதை சரிசெய்து எனது கீயைக் கண்டுபிடித்துத் தாருங்கள்.


6. தினமும் நான் தூங்கும் போது மவுஸை பூனைக்குப் பயந்து என்னுடன் வைத்துக்கொண்டு தூங்குகிறேன். எனவே Mouse தரும்போது கூடவே ஒரு Dog தரவும், பூனையை விரட்டுவதற்கு.


7. நான் தினமும் "*Hearts**" *விளையாடி ஜெயித்துக்கொண்டிருக்கிறேன். எனக்கு எப்போது நான் ஜெயித்த பணத்தைத் தருவீர்கள்? சில நேரங்களில் தோற்றிருக்கிறேன். உங்கள் பணத்தை எப்போது வந்து வாங்கிக்கொள்கிறீர்கள்?


8.என்னுடைய குழந்தை "Microsoft word" கற்று முடித்து விட்டான். நீங்கள் எப்போது "Microsoft sentence" ரிலீஸ் செய்யப்போகிறீர்கள்? என்னுடைய குழந்தை மிகவும் ஆவலாக உள்ளான்.


9. நான் கம்ப்யூட்டர், மானிட்டர், கீபோர்டு, மவுஸ் என அனைத்தையும் விலைகொடுத்து வாங்கியிருக்கிறேன். ஆனால் டெஸ்க்டாப்பில் "My Computer" ஐகான் மட்டும் உள்ளது. மிச்சத்தை எங்கே?


10. என்னுடைய கம்ப்யூட்டரில் "*My pictures**"
· என்று ஒரு ஃபோல்டர் உள்ளது. அதில் என்னுடைய போட்டோவைக் காணவில்லையே? எப்பொழுது அதைப் போடப்போகிறீர்கள்?

11. "Microsoft Office" இன்ஸ்டால் செய்துவிட்டேன். என்னுடைய மனைவி "Microsoft Home" கேட்கிறாள். நான் என்ன செய்யட்டும்?

Monday, June 13, 2011

8 Tips to Take Control of Your Weight




Anyone who is overweight will testify that losing weight is not as easy as it seems. The people that are lean, or have gone from fat to skinny will say it’s just a matter of motivation and elbow grease. Although it is not as simple as that. Our environments have waged war on us. Their weapons are sedentary lives and trans fats of mass destruction. All is not lost though, here are some quick simple tips to get ahead!


Substitute Water. Our bodies are about 65-70% water. It follows that water would be not only essential, but the best possibly choice of liquids to ingest. In fact, our bodies will sometimes simulate a hunger response, when in reality the body is craving hydration. When hungry, drink a glass or two of water to check if it suppresses your hunger.


Chew Your Food. Chewing our food very slowly and deliberately has several benefits that are often overlooked. It gives us the ability to relax, and enjoy our meal. Slow chewing is the first, and highly important, step in a complex system of digestion. Besides, if we eat slowly, we might feel full before finishing the whole meal, and can leave the rest for the next meal.


Exercise daily. How silly of me to include something as obvious as exercise. I did a 30 day trial with waking up, and walking for 30 minutes first thing in the morning. My journal records that I was feeling amazing during the period of time that I was following this habit.


Publicize your intentions. Start a blog, join a forum, and have other people keep you accountable to help. Tell other people your plan, it would help you get the motivation to go with it!


Create a food schedule. Plan your day so that you’re eating at approximately the same time each day. This scheduling will incorporate itself into your circadian rhythm, and aid in digestion.

Do not over eat. Know your limit and stop eating when you are full. I have often been a victim of wanting to finish a meal so that it doesn’t go to waste. This has left me with many a stomach ache. Next time, doggy bag it for later, and don’t hurt yourself!


Choose your snacks wisely. Put down the Lays® and cheese puffs. Pick up the apple and baby carrots. Make the right decision, I know you can do it.


Lifestyle. Remember, it’s not about special diets, or special exercise programs. The real secret is in turning your health into a lifestyle, and focusing on this healthy lifestyle with every choice you make.

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Jannah

When Mu'min will enter into Jannah, it will be announced
1. You will remain healthy forever, disease will never come.

2. You will remain alive for ever, death will never come.

3. You will remain in bounties which will never be finished.

Jannat is made with
Bricks of Gold and Silver.

Its cement is of perfumed Musk. Its chips are pearls and Yaqoot.

Its sand is Zafraan.
There are eight doors ofJannah.


These are eight grades of Jannat
1. Jannatul Mava

2. Darul Maqaam

3. Darul Salaam

4. Darul Khuld

5. Jannat-ul-Adan

6. Jannat-ul-Naeem

7. Jannat-ul-Kasif

8. Jannat-ul-Firdous

Food of Jannah
They will eat foods and fruits continuously up to 40 years. Every bowl will have a new taste.They will take eructation which will digest the food and there will be perfumed sweating for the digestion of water.There will be no urine and stool.

Place Name
There will be gardens in Jannah.

Every garden will have the length of about 100 year's journey.

The shadow of these gardens will be very dense.

Their plants will be free of thorns.

The size of their leaves will be equal to ears of elephants.

Their fruits will be hanging in rows.
Jannatul Mava is in the lowest, Jannat-ul-Adan is the middle & Jannat-ul- Firdous is on the highest.

Those who love each other for the sake of Allah will get a pillar of Yaqoot, On which there will be seventy thousand (70,000) rooms. These will shine for the residents of Jannah as the sun shines for the residents of Duniya.
There will be rooms in Jannah in such a way that every room will have seventy thousand (70,000) dinning sheets.

On every dinning sheet 70,000 types of foods will be served.For their service 80,000 young boys will be moving around looking like beautiful scattered pearls.
One bunch of dates will be equal to the length of 12 arms. The size of a date will be equal to the big pitcher.

These will be whiter than milk, sweeter than honey and softer than butter and free Of seeds. The stem of these plants will be made up of gold and silver.

There will also be gardens of grapes. The bunches of grapes will be very big. The size of a single grape will be equal to a big pitcher.

Someone asked, ya Rasulullah (Sallalahu alaihi wasallam): will it be sufficient for me and my family. It was answered, it will be sufficient for you and your whole tribe.

The Dresses of Jannat
The dress of Jannah will be very beautiful.

One will wear 70 dresses at a time.

These will be very fine, delicate, weightless, having different colors.

These dresses will be so fine that the body even the heart will be visible.

And the waves of love in the hearts will also be visible.

These dresses will never become old, never be dirty and will never tear.

There will be four canals in every Jannah.
1. Water

2. Milk

3. Honey

4. Sharabun Tahoora.


There will also be three fountains in Jannah:
1. Kafoor

2. Zanjabeel

3. Tasneem

Qualities of People of Jannah
In Jannah, height of every Mumin, will be equal to the height of Hazrat Adam (Alaihissalaam) 60 arms (90 feet).

Beauty will be like that of Hazrat Yousuf (Alaihissalaam).

Age of youth will be like that of Hazrat Esa (Alaihissalaam) 30-33 years).

Sweetness of voice will be like that of Hazrat Dawud (Alaihissalaam).

Tolerance will be like that of Hazrat Yaqoob (Alaihissalaam).

Patience will be like that of Hazrat Ayyub (Alaihissalaam).

Habits will be like that of Sayyaduna Muhammad (Sallalahu alaihi wasallam).

NOTE:
If a person makes Du'a for Jannah three times,Jannah requests Allah that O, Allah; make his entry into Jannah.And if a person makes Du'a for safety from Jahannum three times,The Jahannnum requests Allah that, O, Allah; save him from Jahannum.
May Allah grant the entire Ummah of Nabi sallalahu alayhi wasallam Jannat ul Firdous Ameen!

Every good act is charity
JAZAK ALLAHU KHAIR-May Allah Forgive our sins...Ameen

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

The Holy Prophet (SAW) Said:

The Holy Prophet (SAW) Said:
1) Four things that make your body sick:-
a)Excessive talking
b)Excessive sleeping
c)Excessive eating and
d)Excessive meeting/outing with people

2) Four things that destroys the body:-
a)Worrying
b)Sorrow (Sadness/Grief)
c)Hunger
d)Sleeping late at night

3) Four things that make the face looking dull and haggard:-
a)Lying
b)Being disrespectful/impudent (knowingly)
c) Baseless arguments
d)Excessive immorality (committing sins without fear)

4) Four things that make the face glow and shine:-
a) Piety
b) Loyalty
c) Generosity and kindness
d)Helpful to others without being asked

5) Four things make the Rizqi (Sustenance) stop:-
a) Sleeping till late in the morning (from Fajr to sunrise)
b) Not Performing Fardhu or Irregular in Prayers
c) Laziness/Idleness
d) Treachery/Dishonesty

6) Four things that bring/increase the Rizq:-
a) Staying up in the night in prayers
b) Excessive Repentance
c) Regular Charity
d) Zikr (Remembrance of Allah)

The Holy Prophet (SAW), also said to communicate to others even if it is just One Verse (Ayaah), for this one verse will stand out on the Day of Judgment for intercession.

The Holy Prophet (SAW) said,
“Stop doing everything during the Azaan, even if you are reading the Quran.
The person who talks during the Azaan will not be able to say the Kalima E Shahada on his/her death bed".
.........so be careful, do not to make this mistake!!!

**READ THIS DU'A FOR BETTER LIFE**
Allahumma- inni- ala- Zikr-ika -wa Shuk-rika wa husni-Ibaadatik....Ameen.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Keep yourself healthy





10 Biggest Brain Damaging Habits
1. No Breakfast
People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level. This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration.
2. Overeating
It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power.
3. Smoking
It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease.
4. High Sugar consumption
Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development.
5. Air Pollution
The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency.
6. Sleep Deprivation
Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells.
7. Head covered while sleeping
Sleeping with the head covered increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain damaging effects.
8. Working your brain during illness
Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain.
9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts
Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulating thoughts may cause brain shrinkage.
10. Talking Rarely
Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain

How To Cope With Stress and Become More Resilient

Emotional resilience is partially inborn, but it can (and should) be learned and developed. If you’d like to be able to handle life’s challenges (both major and minor) with greater ease, to grow from adversity, and to turn potentially negative events into positive ones, the following steps can help you to become more resilient to stress. Here's How:

A. Develop The Right Attitude
Resilient people tend to view life’s difficulties as challenges and respond accordingly with action, rather than with fear, self-pity, blame or a "victim mentality." While life can be very challenging, an important step in becoming more resilient is to develop positive self-talk and to remind yourself that you are strong and can grow stronger and more wise as you handle life’s challenges.


B. Become Aware
Part of resilience is emotional awareness; it’s important to understand what you’re feeling and why. Sometimes people feel overwhelmed with their emotions, and this frightens and immobilizes them. Knowing why you feel upset can provide valuable information about what needs to change in your life. It’s also important to do research on how to meet the challenges you face. Maintaining a journal can help you explore your inner world and come up with a plan of action.


C. Develop An Internal Locus of Control
Resilient people believe that they’re in control of their lives, and it’s true: while we can’t control our circumstances, we can control how we respond to those circumstances, and that makes a big difference in our attitudes and in the course our lives take. Fortunately, you can develop an internal locus of control. The term ‘locus of control’ refers to whether you feel your life is controlled by you or by forces outside yourself. Those with an internal locus of control feel that they have choice in their lives and control over their circumstances; conversely, those with an external locus of control feel more at the mercy of external events. As you may have guessed, those with a more internal locus of control tend to feel happier, more free, and less stress. They also enjoy better health (likely because they experience less of the damaging chronic stress that can come from feeling powerless), and are more satisfied with life in general. Perhaps not surprisingly, those with an external locus of control are more susceptible to depression as well as other health problems, and tend to keep themselves in situations where they will experience additional stress, feeling powerless to change their own circumstances, which just adds to their stress load. Your locus of control can be shaped by events in your childhood or adulthood (whether you were able to have a strong impact on your environment can lead to a sense of empowerment or of learned helplessness) and perpetuated by habitual thinking patterns. If you feel your locus of control could use a shift, these techniques can help:
· Realize that you always have choice to change your situation. Even if you don’t like the choices available at the moment, even if the only change you can make is in your attitude, you always have some choices.
· When you feel trapped, make a list of all possible courses of action. Just brainstorm and write things down without evaluating them first.
· You may want to also brainstorm with a friend to get more ideas that you may not have initially considered. Don’t shoot down these ideas right away, either; just write them down.
· When you have a list, evaluate each one and decide on the best course of action for you, and keep the others in the back of your mind as alternative options. You may end up with the same answer you had before the brainstorming session, but this exercise can open your eyes to the amount of choices you have in a given situation. Seeing new possibilities will become more of a habit.
· Repeat this practice when you feel trapped in frustrating situations in your life. In more casual, everyday situations, you can still expand your mind to new possibilities by doing this quickly and mentally.
Tips:
· Notice your language and self talk. If you tend to speak in absolutes, stop.
· Phase out phrases like, ‘I have no choice’, and, ‘I can’t…” You can replace them with, ‘I choose not to,’ or, ‘I don’t like my choices, but I will…’ Realizing and acknowledging that you always have choice (even if the choices aren’t ideal) can help you to change your situation, or accept it more easily if it really is the best of all available options.
· Your attitude affects your stress level more than you may realize. This article can help you to learn more about mental and personality factors that influence your stress level, so you can make changes to keep stress down.


D. Cultivate Optimism
Being an optimist is more than looking on the bright side (though that helps). It’s a way of viewing the world where you maximize your strengths and accomplishments, and minimize your weaknesses and setbacks. Developing a more optimistic world view can help you become more resilient. Rally Social Support
While we ultimately face our own challenges, a supportive friend or group of friends can help lighten the load. Those with strong networks of social support tend to stay healthier and happier throughout life, and tend to cope well with stress. Conversely, those with little support may find themselves more vulnerable, and those with conflicted and unsupportive relationships tend to fare even worse.



E. Maintain Your Sense of Humor
If you’re able to laugh at life’s frustrations, you can have increased immunity, if you will, to stress and adversity. Those with a sense of humor about life tend to experience life as less stressful, are able to bond with others during difficult times, and experience the numerous benefits of laughter. If you can take a step back from difficult situations long enough to maintain your sense of humor, you will be more resilient, too.



F. Exercise
Yes, you read right. Exercise has been correlated with stronger levels of resilience. This may be due to the effects of endorphins on one's mood, or the physical health benefits to those who exercise, or both. Regardless, adding a regular exercise habit to your lifestyle can benefit you in more ways than one. As our society becomes more health-conscious, there has been an increased focus on the importance of exercise. Many people exercise to control weight and get in better physical condition to become more healthy or physically attractive, but exercise and stress management are also closely linked. Exercise can be an extremely effective stress reliever for several reasons:
§ Outlet For Frustrations: When life’s annoyances or frustrating situations build up, you can feel stressed or experience low-grade anger. More high-energy forms of exercise like boxing, martial arts or weight training can also provide an effective release of these negative emotions, turning these otherwise potentially unhealthy emotions into motivation for increased health and well-being.
§ Exercise and Stress Hormones: Exercise can decrease ‘stress hormones' like cortisol, and increase endorphins, your body's ‘feel-good’ chemicals, giving your mood a natural boost. (This is the chemistry behind a ‘runner’s high’.)
§ Distraction: Physical activity itself can take your mind off of your problems and either redirect it on the activity at hand or get you into a zen-like state. Exercise usually involves a change of scenery as well, either taking you to a gym, a boxing ring, a park, a scenic mountain, a biking trail or a neighborhood sidewalk, all of which can be pleasant, low-stress places.
§ Looking Good: I have to include this possibly superficial, but significant, benefit of exercise: it helps you lose weight, tone your body, and maintain a healthy glow and a smile. You may feel a subtle but significant boost as your clothes look more flattering on, and you project an aura of increased confidence and strength. Call me shallow, but this does impact many people, and can relieve stress for those who are concerned with their appearance and worry that they don’t look as healthy as they could.
§ Social Support: The benefits of social support are well-documented and manifold. Because exercise and physical activity can often involve others, you can enjoy a double dose of stress-relief with the combined benefits of exercise and fun with friends. Whether you’re in a class with others, working out in the gym with a buddy, playing softball in a league or taking a walk or hike with a friend, having others work out with you can make you feel good as well as help motivate you to push harder to get a better workout without it feeling so much like ‘work’.
§ Increased Health: While stress can cause illness, illness can also cause stress, with the physical pain, missed activities, feelings of isolation and other costs that come with it. So improving your overall health and longevity with exercise can also save you a great deal of stress in the short run (by strengthening your immunity to colds, the flu and other minor illnesses) and the long run (by helping you stay healthier longer, and enjoy life more because of it).


G. Get In Touch With Your Spiritual Side
Studies have shown that those who are more spiritual tend to be more resilient as well. This doesn't mean that you can't be resilient if you are atheist or agnostic. But if you are open to it, reconnecting or strengthening your connection to your spiritual side can provide you with strength. While people use many different religions and paths to find their God or Higher Source, research has shown that those who are more religious or spiritual and use their spirituality to cope with life, experience many benefits to their health and well-being. For many, this news would come as no surprise; spirituality and religious activity have been a source of comfort and relief for multitudes of people. In fact, according to a study from the University of Florida in Gainesville and Wayne State University in Detroit, older adults use prayer more than any other alternative therapy for health; 96% of study participants use prayer specifically to cope with stress. Here are just a few more of the many positive findings about spirituality and its influence on physical and mental health:
· Canadian college students who are involved with campus ministries visited the doctor less, scored higher on tests of psychological well-being, and coped with stress more effectively.
· Older women are more grateful to God than older men, and they receive greater stress-buffering health effects due to this gratitude.
· Those with an intrinsic religious orientation, regardless of gender, exhibited less physiological reactivity toward stress than those with an extrinsic religious orientation. They were also less afraid of death and had greater feelings of well-being. (Those who were intrinsically oriented dedicated their lives to God or a ‘higher power,’ while the extrinsically oriented ones used religion for external ends like making friends or increasing community social standing.)
· Prayer works for young and old alike. Prayer and spirituality have been linked to:
Ø Better health
Ø Less hypertension
Ø Less stress, even during difficult times
Ø More positive feelings
Ø Less depression
Ø Greater psychological well-being
Ø Superior ability to handle stress
Whether this information inspires you to rediscover a forgotten spiritual path, reinforces your commitment to an already well-established one, or simply provides interesting food for thought, this is just a sample of all the encouraging research that’s been done on the topic. Spirituality is personal, and everyone’s spiritual path may be unique. However, some spiritual stress relief strategies have been helpful to many, regardless of faith. Check them out, and see which may work for you.



H. Don’t Give Up
While many people know of coping strategies that can help with stress, as with diets and exercise programs, the most successful individuals are those who maintain the effort for the long term. Don’t give up on your situation; don’t stop working toward getting through it. Trust the process.
Tips: Be patient with yourself, and just do your best.

Too Blessed to be Stressed
No matter how much you meditate, breathe, pray and practice emotional mastery the real test of whether you are the master of your emotional domain is how you respond when its 100 degrees in the middle of July and your kids are experiencing an emotional breakdown! But now I have a different approach and it works when I remember to use it. It's called Too Blessed to be Stressed and the reason this simple, powerful saying works so well is because it is physiologically impossible to be stressed and thankful at the same time. It's the way our brains our wired. When we focus on gratitude and blessings we can't be focusing on the stresses in our life. Instead of flooding our body and brains with stress hormones that age and drain us, we fuel our mind and body with emotions that make us feel great and help us overcome the daily challenges that so often sabotage our joy, success and happiness.



So when the work is piled high on your desk, think about how thankful you are to even have a job while so many are unemployed. When work is driving you crazy think about the fact that you are healthy enough to work. And when busyness and stress starts to impact your performance and interactions with others at work, simply stop, take a deep breath and say I'm too blessed to be stressed. Some might say it's corny. But those who try it know it makes them a better leader, sales person, customer service provider, team member and parent.



Just as the sun is always shining behind the clouds, there is always something to be thankful for in the midst of a stressful moment. When you remember you are blessed you won't be stressed. When you're feeling down and blue remember the words "Thank You." This will help you not only find joy and peace but also experience the magic in every day life.

Friday, June 3, 2011

Cutting off Relations with Relatives is a Major Sin

(Friday speech delivered by Imam Mohamed Baianonie at the Islamic Center of Raleigh, NC on November 28, 1997)
http://islam1.org/khutub/Cutting_off_Relatives.htm