No one ever thinks about the characteristics of a Muslim husband. It is always what a wife should do for the husband...and the list never ends; home management, tutoring, ferrying the kids, caring, cooking, cleaning, washing, working, you name it, she is doing it. so what about the brothers?
Our beloved Prophet SAW was not like this. So, why the men of thisUmmah? It is quite interesting. So I thought I'd share it with you!!!What a Muslim husband should be like...
1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good..
Our beloved Prophet SAW was not like this. So, why the men of thisUmmah? It is quite interesting. So I thought I'd share it with you!!!What a Muslim husband should be like...
1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good..
When was the last time you went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wantshis wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress upfor her too. Remember that the Prophet (PBUH) would always start withMiswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.
2. Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the most belovednames to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.
3. Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our dailylives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - whichbrings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug'him.. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she doesand focus on that.
4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways the Prophet (PBUH) used when he would seesomething inappropriate from his wives (R.A). It's a technique that fewMuslim men have mastered.
5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often..Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah.Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also thoseAhadith when the Prophet (PBUH) would kiss his wife before leaving forSalaah, even when he was fasting.
6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Takefor example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home,and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the onlyacknowledgment she receives is that there needed to be more salt in thesoup. Don't let that be; thank her!
7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that madeher happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize whatgives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, askher and work on repeating those times in your life.
8. Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may lookdown upon the requests of their wives. The Prophet (PBUH) set theexample for us in an incident when Safiyyah (R.A) was crying because, asshe said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comfortedher, and brought her the camel.
9. Be humorous and play games with your wife. Look at how the Prophet(PBUH) would race with his wife Aisha (R.A) in the desert. When was thelast time we did something like that?
10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger (PBUH): 'The best ofyou are those who treat their families the best. And I am the bestamongst you to my family.' Try to be the best!
In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah - ta'ala to make yourmarriage successful. And Allah ta'ala knows best!!
2. Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the most belovednames to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.
3. Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our dailylives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - whichbrings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug'him.. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she doesand focus on that.
4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways the Prophet (PBUH) used when he would seesomething inappropriate from his wives (R.A). It's a technique that fewMuslim men have mastered.
5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often..Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah.Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also thoseAhadith when the Prophet (PBUH) would kiss his wife before leaving forSalaah, even when he was fasting.
6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Takefor example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home,and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the onlyacknowledgment she receives is that there needed to be more salt in thesoup. Don't let that be; thank her!
7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that madeher happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize whatgives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, askher and work on repeating those times in your life.
8. Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may lookdown upon the requests of their wives. The Prophet (PBUH) set theexample for us in an incident when Safiyyah (R.A) was crying because, asshe said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comfortedher, and brought her the camel.
9. Be humorous and play games with your wife. Look at how the Prophet(PBUH) would race with his wife Aisha (R.A) in the desert. When was thelast time we did something like that?
10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger (PBUH): 'The best ofyou are those who treat their families the best. And I am the bestamongst you to my family.' Try to be the best!
In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah - ta'ala to make yourmarriage successful. And Allah ta'ala knows best!!
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